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file #1: fertility is health & why the preconception phase matters
in this first fertility file, I explore my holistic (and maybe a little unconventional view) of fertility and preconception care.
I unpack three key terms: fertility, preconception, and trying to conceive, and explain the nuance between them through a more holistic lens. I talk about how fertility is inseparable from overall health, and how symptoms like irregular cycles, painful or heavy periods, PMS issues, stress patterns, low energy, and metabolic concerns can all signal deeper imbalances that may affect conception and pregnancy outcomes. I also outline what I consider ideal preconception care (up to 12 months, minimum 3), including testing, lifestyle changes, and targeted support.
00:00 Welcome to the Podcast
01:23 Why Fertility Matters
04:29 Fertility Equals Health
09:43 Signs Your Body Needs Support
13:52 Root Cause Health Approach
15:49 Preconception Planning
17:31 Why 12 months is ideal, but 3 months is a must
20:24 Actively Trying to Conceive
episode transcript
[00:00:00] Hello, and welcome to the first ever episode of The Fertility Files, my secret podcast for all things fertility and for those of you who are trying to conceive. This project is a result of me finding myself in my business with the most amount of women and couples who are seeking my support, uh, with optimizing their fertility, with wanting to make babies, with wanting to understand how the menstrual cycle and ovulation works for that purpose to start a family, to make sure they are in the healthiest state possible before entering the world of conception and pregnancy and postpartum and beyond.
This also coincides with me engaging in my own trying to conceive journey for the first time in my life. [00:01:00] So it's new beginnings everywhere. Fertility kept finding me. I have been avoiding fertility for so much of my life, so much of my personal life, and my, in my professional career as a women's health naturopath.
And do you know what? It's actually a relief to finally be embracing it. Now, with this first episode, I have certain episodes laid out, certain topics that I wanna cover because there is so much in the fertility space, in the trying to conceive spaces online, social media, on the internet, on the news, where there is just so much misinformation and confusion.
And this is a really significant journey that you're on, right? Like, wanting to start a family, wanting to understand your fertility and support your fertility in such a way that is [00:02:00] supportive of conception and a healthy pregnancy and a healthy birth. And Unfortunately, in amongst this journey, there is also room for so much confusion, frustration, feeling absolutely hopeless, feeling absolutely devastated when things don't work, as you thought they would, when things don't work out as quickly as you'd hoped, when you have a timeline that is set based on personal factors in your life, what you and your partner and your family have decided on, and the biology is just not clicking with that timeline.
So there's so much room for- frustration. And what I know as a naturopath, what I have been practicing for the last 13 years with fertility awareness and tracking my own cycles and confirming my own ovulations, is that I have a lot to say. I have a lot to offer in this space, and I really believe that there's just some little [00:03:00] tidbits that we could talk about more, some conversations that we could be a bit more frank about, that I think would change how we perceive our fertility on a really, really significant level, in a really, really significant way.
I think fertility is asking for a revolution, and I a little bit think that's why I have been called to step up into this space. it's funny how it's the things that you avoid, s- that you seem to avoid, for so long that end up being the areas where you can maybe make the most difference or where you maybe have actually a lot to contribute and a lot of different ways that you can support.
So, that is my role on this journey. I am here to support you in your fertility journey. And for this first episode, I actually just wanna be a bit boring, if I may, and I just wanna cover some terms. I would like to talk about fertility, preconception, and trying to conceive, because there's nuance between those three [00:04:00] terms, and I think even just how we view these concepts could do with a little bit of an upgrade.
And I think also because I maybe see these things quite differently to how a mainstream medical model would view these topics. So, I might be sharing something in a way that you haven't heard before, pers- a particular perspective that maybe you weren't familiar with, maybe you're not hearing in the more mainstream spaces where you are receiving your fertility and conception knowledge.
So, let me put my two cents in. Fertility. Fertility, in my opinion, eh, seems to be a thing that we tune into when we're ready. When we're ready to start making babies, when we're ready to start having families. It seems to be treated as something that is separate from the rest of our lives, separate from the rest of our health, like that fertility is just its own thing that is there when we are ready for kids; when we are ready to fall pregnant.
And in a [00:05:00] lot of cases, when we wanted to be pregnant yesterday. It's like we wake up one morning and we're like, "Wait, what?" Like, people were telling me about the biological clock in my 20s, and I was like, "Yeah, yeah, yeah, shut up, I don't care." And then I turned 30, and is it a coincidence that within three months of turning 30, I was like, " Oh, shivers, I think I want babies"?
There's a lot to consider now. But what's actually happening is that- Fertility, your fertile potential, your capacity to reproduce and grow new life, is culminating throughout your entire life up until this very moment. This very moment that you find yourself listening to this, your fertility has been present, has been brewing, has either been supported or unsupported because fertility is a result of health Fertility and health are almost one in the same It is unfair [00:06:00] to expect that we will have the capacity to not only fall pregnant, but to fall pregnant easefully, to have a healthy pregnancy, and to have a healthy birth with reduced risks, you know, reduced outcome for adverse events, if there are areas in our life and in our health that we are totally neglecting or where there are some obvious areas asking for support, where there are some obvious signs of imbalance in our health If there's issues in health, that is going to translate to your fertility journey.
This is why it is important to value your health. If you value fertility, if you want to be able to fall pregnant and have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy birth, caring about your health full stop is really crucial. [00:07:00] And I was actually reflecting on this just yesterday, sometimes I find in my work, I'm having to justify health to people.
I'm having to justify health practices. I am having to defend why doing something is good for your health. I am having to defend health optimization, you know, why it's good to be proactive, uh, with your health and with relating to your body and how it's functioning, and that it would be so much easier if it was, like, religious in a sense.
'Cause I notice that some people who have a really strong religious faith find it way easier to lean into natural medicine and eating whole foods and being in touch with nature in ways that end up really supporting their whole health. But they're engaging with it from a place of deep, deep faith that is core to who they are.
And I feel like sometimes when we don't [00:08:00] have that, and sometimes even when we do, we can be really disconnected from our health. We can't see the value in doing certain things for our bodies. We have everyday addictions, like being addicted to scrolling or TV or our phones or social media and just screen time through the roof and staying up late and artificial lights at night and not getting enough sunlight exposure during the day.
You know, there's all these things. And then there's things that are out of our control. There are factors of modernity that are out of our control, and when I'm trying to support people to take action to mitigate the crappy stuff that's going on, that's working against their health and against their fertility, it's kind of like a, "Mm, you know, can you prove to me why that's so good?"
And I wish I could just get people to focus on health in a religious way. I wish I was a great preacher who could just be like, "Your body matters, and here's why." And I [00:09:00] guess in a way, I do do that. I try to do that in some ways. I, I want you to care about your body and your health because I don't want you to get to the point where maybe you've been trying to conceive for more than a few months, and it hasn't been successful yet.
And you are like, "What the fuck is going on? What the fuck is going on? I thought I was healthy." But when we're being proactive with our health, there are some really clear signs and symptoms that we can pick up on that hint to us that things are out of balance, that can translate into how that's going to impact our fertility journey.
Some examples to give you an idea of what I'm talking about so I can stop being so vague, things like having an irregular cycle. Maybe you got a diagnosis of PCOS or PMOS, or maybe you've had an ultrasound done in the past and there were polycystic ovaries, but they [00:10:00] told you that you didn't have the syndrome and that it was nothing to worry about.
so maybe you have a diagnosis like that, that, you know, you sort of just got a few years ago and just forgot about and, you know. And maybe you're just used to your periods showing up whenever they like on no set rhythm or schedule. Having, you know, 35-day or longer cycles, it has just become your norm, and you get used to it.
You get familiar with it. But really, that is a signal from your body telling you that something needs a little bit of support. Maybe there's a little bit of room for some regulation, some hormone support, maybe some support with your nervous system because regular cycles, let me tell you, regular cycles start with a beautiful, flexible, adaptive nervous system that has a grounded and calm enough baseline.
And that's gonna look a little bit different for everyone, but that's definitely a factor. [00:11:00] If you have obvious issues with your period itself, so not the regularity of your whole cycle, the time between one period to the next, but maybe you have symptoms that specifically show up at your period. Maybe you get really heavy bleeding, really painful bleeding.
These signs on their own can suggest that there may be something going on in your body that could also be impacting your fertility. And if not your ability to fall pregnant, could be affecting your egg quality, which would determine the outcome of the pregnancy and the quality of the pregnancy. Then if we look to other times in your cycle, the premenstrual phase is a big one.
If you find you get a lot of symptoms during that time, in, say, the few days to the week leading up to your bleed. If you have really strong mood swings, bloating, acne breakouts, strong sugar cravings, [00:12:00] energy crashes, these are all signs that something on some level of your hormonal systems in your body, something needs support.
And especially when it's related to metabolism, so if we're talking about energy, if we're talking about weight, if we're talking about sugar cravings, they are the ones I find end up having the biggest impact on fertility. I'm not gonna talk about it too much here, but insulin resistance is at the root of a lot of different symptoms, a lot of different diagnoses, and will impact your fertility.
And if you're curious about that specifically, message me and ask me, ask me more about it, and I'll send you some more info
If we are frequently stressed, maybe we have heart pal- palpitations, maybe it's easy for us to work up a sweat, maybe if we've got something due or a presentation or a new job or meeting a new person for the first time or [00:13:00] going to a new place for the first time, and we find ourselves rushing to the toilet or getting nauseous or bloated before stressful events, that's a sign that there's something going on at the level of our nervous system, at the level of our digestive system as well.
That in itself could be having an impact on fertility If you find that you are just generally running on empty, maybe getting 8 to 10 hours of sleep and still not feeling recharged in the morning, maybe struggling to fall asleep, not having a strong appetite, not going to the toilet regularly, getting symptoms anywhere in your body, anywhere in your life could be indirectly hinting at something going on in the realm of fertility because they are not separate.
Fertility is not separate from the rest of your body. So I believe that fertility is a result of health and that caring for your body in a holistic, [00:14:00] root cause way, so we're not just suppressing symptoms, we're not just looking for a pill to take that will shut off the symptoms that are bothering us. We will take the time to investigate what's actually going on, why the symptom is happening, what is causing that in the first place, and that's what we address.
Working with your body in that way will be supportive of fertility. You know, forget the prenatals for a sec. Forget, like, the vitamins and the supplements that people say are good for conception and good for, you know, fertility, and let's just come down to a really fundamental level of being in touch with your body, being in touch and aware of your health, and having a solid understanding that is above the mainstream threshold of what good health is because, in my opinion, what is considered good health to the average Joe, and unfortunately, what's considered good health to the mainstream medical system, [00:15:00] is maybe not optimal; is maybe not the level of health that you need to be at to successfully conceive and have a healthy pregnancy and have a healthy birth and have enough resources, internal resources, and have a good baseline of body functioning to support you into motherhood and beyond, right?
It's not just about falling pregnant and the birth. It's about the stuff that happens after, which is just life. And being connected with our bodies, being connected with what health means to us, what that looks like for us, and where we can optimize things is conducive to a good life. So that's the first thing I want to say about fertility.
Fertility is not separate from health. Fertility is not separate from the rest of your body. Preconception. Preconception, essentially just talking about before conception. What happens before the moment an [00:16:00] egg is fertilized by a sperm cell inside your uterus, right? Some people would say that you don't need to do anything at all.
If you are actively thinking about making babies, just start trying. I would be of a s- a, unfortunately, different opinion. One that requires a little bit more input, a little bit more active input from your end. If I am being really, really ideal, I would invite women and couples to set aside 12 months of solid preconception work, which involves looking after your health in the ways that I mentioned before, which would involve a thorough investigation, high-quality, gold standard hormone testing, gold standard semen analysis.
You know, I've been looking at a lot of semen test results lately, [00:17:00] and I've been doing a lot of research on them, and the baseline is poor. And also how the tests are performed themselves, and all the factors that go into the testing, and how the sample is interpreted. There are so many factors that can totally skew the results.
Anyway, I will have an episode dedicated to preconception testing, so I'll save more of what I want to say about that till then. So you'll just have to wait and bear with me. So that 12-month period of preconception care would involve that kind of thorough investigation. It would involve supporting any areas of your body and areas of your life where there are those signs of imbalance.
It would involve checking your nutrient stores for nutrients that are important for health, full stop, but specifically ones that are key to fertility. It would involve changing any habits that maybe you've fallen into [00:18:00] that aren't that helpful to your goals of fertility. It may involve some tailored supplementation, may involve some diet changes, some other lifestyle changes, trying new practices to support your body and to support your health and your fertility goals.
If you have an exposure to environmental chemicals or heavy metals
Your preconception care journey could involve a tailored detox protocol. And I don't, I don't like that word, and I don't use that word lightly, and I don't use that word in a gimmicky way. But supporting your body to clear out these things, these toxins that have built up from specific exposure or from specific times in your life, in such a way that you're able to clear them and minimize what is passed on to a baby that will grow inside of you.
So it's really specific, and that can seem like a long time to a lot of people, [00:19:00] especially if you're, you've already started trying and you're like, "I don't have 12 months. I don't want to spend 12 months doing this. I'm ready for babies yesterday." So that's just the most ideal scenario. The next best case is, I think, allowing a really, a good solid six months.
Failing that, three months, allowing three cycles of health changes, supportive healthy habits, diet changes that are helpful for fertility, supplementation that is specific and tailored to what your body is asking for. Improving things for your partner as well, improving sperm quality, improving egg quality.
There is so much we can do in three months. Three months is a really good minimum because the sperm maturation process from germ cell to fully mature sperm that is ready to fertilize an egg is approximately 100 days. [00:20:00] And also, the journey of an egg cell in one of your ovaries maturing is about 100 to 120 days.
So it's approximately three months. So I think that is a really good minimum amount of time. Can you give yourself three months to making specific changes that are aligned with your fertility goals? There's so much we can do there. And then there's trying to conceive, and this is what I would call actively trying.
Honing in on the timing of your cycle, honing in on timing sex specifically in a way that lines up with your fertile window and ovulation. This is also something that I see so much misinformation and just misunderstanding about, um, especially in a lot of trying to conceive spaces online, on a lot of online forums, and how I hear fertility specialists talking about this.
There is so much that is misunderstood, and I can't wait for the episode of The Fertility Files where I talk to you about your fertile window [00:21:00] and cervical mucus because there is so much to know and so much to learn, and it can drastically change your trying to conceive journey. It can make it so much easier.
That is where I find most of the women I work with getting lost in the source is, you know, maybe just doing the ovulation predictor kits from the chemist, uh, the, the urine tests, and trying to time it perfectly based on that test. But let me tell you, that test will not tell you when the best time to try is.
So stay tuned for that one. So I just wanted to distinguish between those three categories of this journey, those three stages of this journey, looking at fertility as a whole. Fertility, I see it as important regardless of your actual intention to reproduce because it is synonymous with health. So I think fertility is a great goal for [00:22:00] anyone, because if you are fertile, if you have good quality, optimal fertility, it's more likely that you're gonna have a lot of other great measures of health in other areas of your life and other areas of your body.
And then there's the preconception stage, the preconception journey, and I would allow minimum of three months, but most ideally a solid 12 months of intentional specific work to support your fertility goals based on the signs and symptoms that your body is communicating with us, and your partner's body for that matter.
And then there's trying to conceive, which is we've got the bases are loaded, we are good to go, we are actively trying. This is the first installment of The Fertility Files. If you are curious to learn more, you can book in for a free Fertility Clarity Call. I will walk you through the key things that get missed in [00:23:00] mainstream fertility care.
I will look at your specific journey, where you're at, what you've tried, where you'd like to be, and I will help you break down the next best step for you. You'll find the link for that below, and stay tuned for the next episode of The Fertility Files, where we are going to delve into the big, wide world of the fertile window and cervical mucus.
file #2: baby making magic: cervical fluid
in this second fertility file, I get nitty gritty into one of the most underrated fertility markers: cervical mucus
In this episode I take a deep dive into cervical mucus — the most underrated, underutilised, and underexplained fertility tool available to you. I cover what cervical mucus actually is, where it comes from, and why the cells in your cervix produce different types of fluid at different points in your cycle. I explain the role fertile-quality mucus plays in sperm survival, sperm transport, and even the final stage of sperm maturation needed for fertilisation. I then walk you through exactly how to observe and track it — what to look for, what to feel for, and how to categorise what you notice each day. I also address the most common response I get from women when they first hear this information, and why it doesn't mean what they think it means.
01:30 Why Cervical Mucus Is the Underdog of Fertility
03:00 What Cervical Mucus Is and Where It Comes From
05:00 Non-Fertile Fluid: Protection, Filtration and the Cervical Plug
06:30 Fertile Fluid: Swimming Lanes, Sperm Nourishment and Capacitation
08:30 Your Fertile Window Explained: Sperm Survival vs Egg Viability
09:30 How to Track It: Sensation Before Appearance
11:00 The Four Sensation Categories: Dry, Moist, Wet, Slippery
12:30 What You'll Actually See: Appearance and What It Means
14:30 What Peak Mucus Looks, Feels and Acts Like
16:00 When Sensation and Appearance Don't Match
17:00 "I Don't Think I Have That Kind of Mucus"
18:30 Karinda's Personal Story: 13 Years of Tracking (and an Embarrassing Early Confusion)
19:30 Why You Need to Check Multiple Times a Day
21:00 Using Cervical Mucus to Time Conception
23:00 Pairing This With BBT Inside Fertile Foundations
24:00 Free Fertility Clarity Call + What's Coming Next
episode transcript
[00:00:00] Hello, and welcome to the second installment of The Fertility Files. And today, we are talking all about cervical mucus. And if you don't know already, this is one of my favorite things to talk about because I believe it is the underdog of fertility support. It is the underdog of trying to conceive. In all the women that I've had conversations with who are trying to conceive, trying to optimize their fertility, and they've gone to all the appointments with their doctors and maybe even consulted with fertility specialists, no one is talking about cervical mucus.
Why do I care about cervical mucus in the context of fertility? Because it turns out, this very specific fluid that exists within your reproductive tract at a very [00:01:00] specific time of your menstrual cycle is what is needed for sperm cells to survive in your reproductive tract and can help them get to the ovulated egg faster.
And can even, in some cases, help the sperm cell enter its final phase of maturation that enables it to swim fast enough to actually penetrate the egg cell in order for successful fertilization. That is what we want. If we're about baby-making, that is our goal. And there is this magical fluid inside of ourselves that costs nothing to observe, nothing to keep track of And we're ignoring it, and I don't know why we're ignoring it because it is so valuable.
It is such a valuable marker. You don't have to [00:02:00] pay for the test strips from the chemist, you know, that they market as ovulation confirmers. Basal body temperature tracking is fantastic, but you don't even need to go out and buy a thermometer. You can start with observing what's in your underwear, what's on the toilet paper, what you feel as you are just walking around going about your day Let's talk about it.
Cervical mucus is a specific kind of fluid that is produced by cells in your cervix. You know that thing, that part of us, that we often tend to forget about and we only think about in the context of getting the reminder every five years to do our Pap smear, to check for HPV, to make sure we don't have cervical cancer?
Yeah, that fun part of our body, the cervix. There are so many functions of the cervix, so many wonderful things that it does, but today we're gonna hone in on its [00:03:00] production of cervical mucus. So inside your cervix, you have these different what we call crypts. So if you imagine like a, imagine a vertical tunnel in your mind's eye, because the cervix is like a portal, so it's the portal between your vagina and your uterus.
It is the portal that sperm cells have to successfully travel through in order to even think about reaching an ovulated egg to fertilize. And on the walls of this portal, there are these little pockets, these little pockets that we call the cervical crypts. These pockets are made up of specialized tissue, different cervical cells, that produce different kinds of mucus.
What determines which cells will be activated and what kind of mucus will be produced is your hormones. Your hormone levels that fluctuate throughout your menstrual cycle. So the closer we get to ovulation, the closer we get to r- a release of that egg [00:04:00] cell once per menstrual cycle, the higher our estrogen levels go.
With higher estrogen levels, these cervical cells that produce this really fertile kind of fluid are sensitized and activated, and they are getting the message to produce this fluid. Before I get too much into that fertile kind of fluid, I want to tell you about cervical fluid in general and the different kinds and the different functions that they serve.
There are some cervical cells that will produce a fluid that is thicker and more dense, and this is the kind of fluid that will be most active at your non- fertile times of your cycle. Say you've ovulated, and your body is going off the idea that there is a chance that you have successfully conceived that cycle, and what your body wants to do is protect that fertilized egg at all costs. So these [00:05:00] denser, thicker kinds of cervical fluid actually form a plug at the opening of your cervix that prevents any other sperm from coming in and disrupting the environment, and also protects the cervix from any pathogens, any bacterial, fungal species, or viruses from coming in and potentially compromising that fertilized egg.
So there's that beautiful function of protection and filtration. You have this beautiful fluid that your cervix is producing without you even realizing that is filtering out crappy sperm cells and protecting your womb from invaders that could create an infection. How freaking beautiful?
Now let's go to the more fertile kind of fluid. This fluid will be present in what we call your fertile window. Your fertile window is the time in your menstrual cycle where, one, it's [00:06:00] possible for sperm to survive inside of you after ejaculation, and two, the time that your ovulated egg is available for fertilization.
Now, the maximum amount of time that sperm cells can survive in you is up to seven days. Five to seven days in ideal conditions. By default, our reproductive tract is acidic. It will kill sperm cells. But we've got this beautiful cervical fluid that can actually nourish them and protect them and keep them alive.
It makes our environment a bit more alkaline rather than acidic to prevent sperm die-off. Pretty cool. So that's five to seven th- days there for the sperm. On the other hand, our ovulated egg is viable to be fertilized for about 24 hours max, 48 hours in cases where there has been a double ovulation, which is incredibly, incredibly rare.[00:07:00]
But on average, it's about 17 hours. So we've got this window of about eight days max, so seven days accounting for sperm to be able to potentially survive inside of us, and we've got the one to two days when our egg is able to be fertilized And in this fertile window, as our estrogen levels rise, as we're approaching ovulation, specific cells in our cervix are getting stimulated to produce this kind of fluid that is very liquefied.
It's watery, it's slippery, it's lubricative, and it helps nourish sperm cells. So during this fertile window, there will be some of that more dense mucus present to help filter out the poor quality sperm. We love that. But this more fertile kind of fluid actually creates these swimming lanes almost. So imagine you're picturing that portal.
You've got the crypts on the [00:08:00] side. And there's, like, the dense kind of mucus in some pockets that's trapping sperm. But there are these clear channels in between these pockets of the dense mucus. And once sperm get in those channels, if they're swimming well enough and if they have okay, uh, morphology, like how they're shaped, they are able to enter that channel, and they have, like, a super highway to easily get up through the rest of the cervix and reach the uterus more easily.
That gets them closer to an ovulated egg faster. We fricking love that. That's what we want. If we're baby making, that is what we want to happen. This kind of fluid, contains fructose, which actually gives the sperm cells a source of energy. And as I mentioned before, this specific quality, of mucus can actually help sperm cells get to that final stage of sperm maturation, which is what we call capacitation, which actually gives them the burst of energy [00:09:00] to swim faster and penetrate the wall of our egg cell.
That's what we need for fertilization to occur. Oh my fricking God, this stuff is so cool. Now, you might be wondering, okay, so my body's doing this. How, how do I begin to track this? What, what the hell do I need to do? It is easy to track. It can take some time to get into the swing of it, first to get into, like, a habit of keeping track every day, but it can also take some time to tune in and get to know the different sensations and how they translate into your fertility.
So the cool thing about cervical mucus, unlike ovulation predictor kits, unlike basal body temperature even, cervical mucus is your real-time indicator of fertility. It gives you valuable information on the day about your fertile potential. If you have the more [00:10:00] fertile quality fluid, you are more likely to conceive.
There was some research done, uh, in the first three months of trying to conceive, women and couples who had an awareness of cervical mucus and were tracking their cervical mucus and had some training in it, conceived faster than the women and couples who did not have this information. So this is really, really powerful information to have.
To track this successfully, there are two simple things that you are going to want to, uh, tune into and keep track of. I highly recommend an app called Read Your Body to track all things menstrual cycles and f- cervical fluid in particular. These two things: sensation and appearance. Sensation is literally how it feels at any given moment, at any point in the day, how it feels at your vulva.
You may notice this [00:11:00] sensation just as you're walking around, or you may notice this sensation more obviously when you wipe with toilet paper after using the toilet, whether it's for urination or doing a poop. When you wipe a piece of toilet paper across your vulva, you will feel a few different things.
You will either feel a sense of dryness, and all you'll see on the toilet paper is maybe a bit of urine that you're wiping up, and it will feel dry as you are wiping over your vulva. Other times, you may feel what we would call smooth. So there's, like, a bit of moisture there, but it wasn't, like, a really, strong, obvious sensation.
And in some cases, you will wipe over your vulva, and you will feel this overtly slippery sensation. The slippery sensation is what we associate with what we call peak cervical mucus. That is the kind of mucus that holds the most fertile, supportive qualities. That is the [00:12:00] kind of mucus that gives the sperm cells those superhighways, that helps nourish the sperm cells.
That is what we're looking out for. Now, I talk about sensation first. You might be like, "Okay, well, tell me what this mucus looks like. Like, what do I look out for?" I focus on sensation first because you only need a little bit of cervical mucus to feel a sensation, but you need a lot more mucus in order to see it.
And all we need to conceive successfully is a little bit of that mucus. So I encourage women to tune into sensation as the primary indicator of observing their cervical fluid for that day. My recommendation here is to check at every chance you get, every time you go to the toilet, every time you remember as you're walking around, and sometimes you might not even have to remember because you'll be walking around, and you'll be like, "Oh, my gosh, I, I feel wet as I'm walking around."
How you're gonna track that in your [00:13:00] app is the-- using the words dry, moist, wet, or slippery. Just four easy words to help categorize the sensation that you felt. This can be the sensation when you're walking around or the sensation when you wipe with toilet paper. The second thing we look at is what we look at, its appearance.
It's what we see in terms of actual fluid that is visible. So you're doing your toilet paper checks, and so you wipe across your vulva, and then you can look at the toilet paper. And you might not see-- there might be times where it felt dry to wipe over, and then you don't see much on the toilet paper.
There might be times where it feels smooth or a little bit damp as you wipe over your vulva, and then you look at it, and maybe there's a bit of just creamy, thicker kind of fluid or mucus. And maybe you notice that in your underwear as well. You see, like, white stains in your underwear, the thing that we've called discharge forever.
More often than [00:14:00] not, it's cervical fluid. There are some cases where it's not cervical fluid, and we'll cover those a little bit at the end. And then there'll be times where you might wipe and you feel the slippery sensation, oh, and then you take a look, and there is this clear looking snot kind of thing on the toilet paper, and you are like, "Did that just come out of my body?
What the hell?" That is peak mucus. That is the cervical mucus that sperm cells love. That is the cervical mucus that is trying to help you make a baby and successfully conceive. So that kind of peak mucus that is indicative of, like, being closest to ovulation, uh, will be any parts clear. It will be able to stretch more than one inch, so it has this stretchy quality.
It also has this quality where it can, like, hang off the toilet paper on its own, or it can, like, hang off your fingers if you pick it up. And I [00:15:00] encourage people to get comfortable with what is coming out of them. Feel free to touch and feel. It's your own body. This is nothing scary. This is nothing, nothing foreign.
This is all coming from you, okay? And the other quality about peak mucus is that it will have an intensely wet or a slippery sensation that accompanies it when it is present. Now, is sensation always going to line up with appearance? Not necessarily. You could have a dry wiping sensation and then see a little bit of creamy something something, on the toilet paper, for example.
You could, see, that clear, snotty-like mucus on the toilet paper, but maybe you didn't have the slippery sensation. Maybe you just felt wet, or you felt a little bit damp or moist. What we're looking for are the days of any kind of fertile quality. So whether it looks fertile or the sensation is fertile, we are interested in that.
So whether [00:16:00] it's feels slippery, and has the f- fertile kind of appearance, like it looks like raw egg white, some people even compare it to, it's any parts clear. It can stretch beyond one inch. or whether it's just one of those signs, that still counts, and that is what you are going to track in your app of choice.
And again, I highly, highly recommend Read Your Body. I just find it's, of all the cycle tracking apps I've used, this is the most clear, helpful, beautifully illustrated one. Has a beautiful interface, very easy to use. I love it. Now, what I will say, the last time I was training a fertility client in cervical mucus, before I asked her what she thought of some of the information I shared with her, I said, "Let me say this."
I'll say all this to women, and most commonly, the first response I get is, "Okay, I get the theory, but, like, I don't think I have that kind of mucus. I don't think I have that fertile kind of slippery, [00:17:00] stretchy, snotty, clear, egg white-like mucus." And what I say to that is once you start paying attention, observing every day at every opportunity, you will be shocked at how much you notice.
You will be shocked at how quickly you can pick up on a pattern throughout a menstrual cycle. And so it changes from after your period, it develops a bit, maybe it gets a bit, you know, it goes from dry to moist, and then you're getting more creamy or you're seeing more, more of that discharge appearance in your underwear.
And then you get-- you start to feel a bit more wet, and then maybe you have one or two days of slippery, and then after ovulation, it goes back to just feeling a bit moist or damp, until your next period arrives. You will be amazed at how quickly you pick up on that pattern. And so I said that to this client, and she was like, "That's exactly what I was thinking."
Like, this is great and all, but I don't think I have that kind of mucus. Just start [00:18:00] tracking. I promise you will be amazed. Personally, for me, I was on the pill for a lot of my teenage years, so there was a time before I learnt this, and I, I learnt this stuff at 18, so I did start tracking pretty early, and I've been tracking my cervical mucus just about every day for 13 years, which is, makes me sound old.
And before I learnt this, I was noticing some mucus, especially when I was wiping after using the toilet, and I actually thought it was coming out of my butt. I actually thought that mucus was, like, associated with, like, my IBS and, like, the weird bowel movements that I was having and the digestive trouble that I was having.
When I learnt the theory and I started tracking it alongside my menstrual cycle, I was like, "Oh my God, it's actually, it's coming out of my vagina." That it's not coming out of my anus. Just being frank with you, uh, because you might notice the same thing. You might be like, "Oh, [00:19:00] yeah, I have noticed this sometimes on the toilet paper, but I just associated it with pooping."
Because any time we activate the pelvic floor with urinating or pooping or doing some inte- intense exercise or moving it around, any time we activate the pelvic floor, that will help encourage cervical fluid to get to the opening of our vagina, right? Which just makes it more obvious.
So we are more likely to notice these larger amounts of mucus, and especially the fertile quality mucus, after we do a poop or after we use the bathroom. So that is totally, totally normal. Now, I encourage you to check multiple times throughout the day because if you just check once a day, you could be missing your peak time.
You could be missing p- peak mucus, because you're not gonna have the same kind of mucus all throughout a day, right? You're going to have, changes throughout a day. It's not just gonna be one note all, for all day, for 24 hours. So you might [00:20:00] go to the toilet, say, five times a day, and four times that you check, you just feel a bit moist or damp.
But one of those times, you might get a slippery wipe and then notice some egg white-like mucus on the toilet paper. That's your peak observation. And imagine if you hadn't checked that fifth time. You would have missed that, and that would have been such valuable information that is a game changer to your trying to conceive journey.
So that's why it's important to check multiple times a day. I also highly encourage you to check, uh, not just in one half of the day, because sometimes it can take a while for that mucus to get to the opening of the vagina, like I said. So movement is required, activity is required. You might not notice anything in the morning.
Sometimes you certainly will, but you might notice that it takes a bit of time. Once you're up and moving, then you get a more obvious sensation or a more obvious appearance observation. How does this, how does this come into your fertility journey? How do we use this information to [00:21:00] help us conceive?
There's a lot of nitty-gritty that goes into this. If you're looking for direct, tailored-to-you training on this method of assisting conception, you can book in for a Free Fertility Call, and we will chat all things cervical mucus and how it relates to you and talk about your next steps there. But here's what I'll say that you can get started with ASAP.
Chances of conception are highest on the days where you have peak fertile mucus. So any day that you have a slippery sensation, any day that you have an intensely wet sensation, it might even feel watery. Any day that you notice your mucus is any parts clear, is able to stretch more than one inch, that is go time.
They are your days where con- chances of conception will be highest. Now, I wanna note: cervical mucus does not confirm that you have [00:22:00] ovulated. A cervical mucus pattern doesn't confirm ovulation. All it tells us is that your estrogen levels are getting high enough that it's, your body is able to produce that kind of fluid.
It's an indication that your body is attempting to ovulate, that your body is gearing up for ovulation. But it doesn't confirm that it will definitely happen. It doesn't predict it accurately. We just have to go based on what we're observing in the day. That's where it can be really helpful to pair this cervical mucus tracking with something like basal body temperature tracking, which is exactly what I teach people in Fertile Foundations, my program and course for those trying to conceive and optimize their fertility.
Because basal body temperature will help confirm that you have ovulated, so that's where we really beautifully narrow down that fertile window. Remember, that will be about eight days max per cycle. That is the window where conception will be at all possible, and cervical mucus is gonna be the biggest indicator [00:23:00] of accurately identifying that window for you.
We are not going based on cycle days. We are not saying, "Oh, yep, your fertile window opens on cycle day eight and goes through till cycle day 16." No. We have to listen to your body. You have to observe your body in real time, every day. I promise, you will be blown away by what you start to observe, the patterns you start to track, okay?
And if you are keen to learn more about this, I am so keen to tell you everything I know about cervical mucus, helping you interpret your own charts when you're tracking this in a chart alongside your menstrual cycle. It can be a lot. It can be a lot to navigate at first, but this is the thing that I want every bloody woman and couple who are trying to conceive, they need to know about cervical mucus, and I am here to talk about it for days, my girls, days.
So if you're interested to learn more, the link will be below to book in your [00:24:00] free Fertility Clarity Call. Tell me a bit about what is going on for you, and I will tell you what I think the next best steps are for your fertility journey specifically. And if you're interested in the specific step-by-step training for observing cervical mucus, tracking your basal body temperatures, that is also available as well.
And I've also done another podcast over on the Oh My Menses podcast. I did a whole episode talking about all kinds of vaginal fluid and discharge, including cervical fluid, also including arousal fluid, and just different things that can come out of our vagina that no one has taught us about. Why is no one talking about stuff that comes out of our, our vagina?
Considering how much comes out of our vagina, can we be honest? So I'll also link that down below if you want a little bit more background information. If you want to understand the difference between cervical fluid and other kinds of fluid that we may notice, I highly recommend checking out that episode.
In the meantime, stay [00:25:00] tuned for the next episode of The Fertility Files. Next episode, hmm, what are we going to be talking about? We might be talking about testing for preconception. We might be talking about prenatal supplements, or we might be talking about libido. Hmm, who knows what episode's gonna come next?
Have to stay tuned. Thank you for listening to this one, and I will see you on the next episode of The Fertility Files.
file #3: libido, libido, libido.
in this third fertility file, I delve into a topic that seems to get forgotten about when we talk about making babies… the drive to have sex.
In this episode I explore libido not just as sexual desire, but as life force energy — the deeper question of whether you are genuinely hungry for life. As I see it, libido is not separate from fertility, and the energy, intention, and openness you bring to conception matters more than most conventional fertility advice acknowledges. I cover what it means to feel turned on by yourself, your partner, and your life… and what to focus on when you don't. I explore the emotions and states that block creative energy, and invite you to transmute rather than suppress them. I close with a reflection on the energetic ingredients of creation, and why these are foundational to fertility, not separate from it.
TIMESTAMPS:
00:45 Defining Libido: Sexual Desire and Life Force Energy
02:00 The Question Libido Is Really Asking You
03:00 Is the Sex You're Having Coming From Desire or Desperation?
04:30 The Energy and Intention Behind Conception
06:00 Are You Turned On By Yourself?
08:30 Are You Turned On By Life? The Role of Boredom and Creativity
11:30 Emotions That Block Creative and Libidinal Energy
14:00 Transmuting Negative Emotions: Compost for the Soul
17:00 The Energetic Ingredients of Creation
19:30 A Reflection on How You've Been Feeling
episode transcript
Hello, and welcome to the third installment of The Fertility Files. Today, I'm going to talk about something that could be considered a bit more controversial, but when you really, really think about it, at the most basic of levels, this is almost a must for fertility and for conception.
libido. Libido, libido, libido
Libido, interestingly, can be simply defined as, one, sexual desire. But going a bit deeper than that, it can also encompass the energy as a component of your life instinct. It can encompass all forms of sexual desire, but also kind of acts as the driving force behind other needs. It's kind of like a life force energy.
That's [00:01:00] how I see libido
The question that I think libido asks us is, are you hungry for life?
And I guess before we're even looking at, you know, what your current fertility goals are, what your current trying to conceive goals are, I guess the simple question is, do you have a libido? And I guess we all have a libido. But the deeper question is: where would you rate the health and strength and vitality of your libido currently in your life?
When do you feel turned on? When do you feel turned off? When you are perhaps timing intercourse with ovulation, do you have a libido in those moments? The times that you try, is that coming from a healthy libido? Or is it coming from an energy of force and [00:02:00] desperation? Panic maybe? Expectation maybe? I guess really simply, when you're trying to have a baby, is it coming from a place of feeling like doing the thing that results in babies?
Do you feel like the sex that you're having?
I really do believe, and look, maybe I'm being a bit idealistic. Heaven forbid I'm idealistic, but I really do believe that the energy and the intention behind sexual encounters can really make a difference to the experience and the result of that sexual encounter. If I'm being really woo-woo and energetic about it, I definitely believe there needs to be a component of reciprocity, so give and take.
But also for you as the female in the dynamic, a really deep sense [00:03:00] of openness to receive. You are literally intending to receive something from your partner that enables life to grow. That is literally the spark of life.
So when you're having sex, when you're thinking about having sex, beforehand and during, are you turned on? Is there genuine desire on a psychological level, on an emotional level, and on a physical level? Are you physically warmed up and enticed to have the sex that could result in pregnancy? I believe we get to make it a bit, you know, we get to make it intentional, make it a bit of a ceremony.
The energy that you bring to conception matters.
Being in a receptive state if you're trying to conceive matters. And if you [00:04:00] feel like you're not in an open, receptive state, I invite you to look at other areas in your life where maybe you are closed instead of open, where you are maybe giving too much instead of being receptive and open to receiving.
Where in your life are you feeling the pressure to have your hands tightly gripped to the wheel, and you must be in control, and there's lots of responsibility and pressure on you, and there's no space for softness to shift into a more open state to be able to receive?
And then feeling turned on. Are you feeling turned on about the sex that you're having? Now, the obvious question might be, do you feel turned on by your partner? And that's definitely an important component. But I think the first question to ask is, are you turned on by yourself? In our modern Westernized culture, I feel like there is a dynamic where we are encouraged to, or just by [00:05:00] default over time, we have projected our sexual desire and our sexual needs onto other people.
We wait for other people to turn us on. But what about us? What about ourselves? What we are bringing to the table? The role that we play in the equation?
And maybe the question there, the little side question there is, are there habits in your life, are there things that you do, ways that you treat yourself that aren't turning you on? Would you have sex with you? And there's-- I know that's a loaded question, and there's a lot of components to that And I think it's really well worth asking, especially if you are someone who would describe your libido as low.
Especially if you would say, "Yeah, I'm not actually enjoying the sex that we're having. It's kind of just become a chore."
Are you turned on by yourself? Are you turned on by your [00:06:00] partner? And that's a whole deeper realm that I'm just gonna plant the seed for you of, but I'm not gonna go into, uh, much into relational dynamics in this episode. That's, that's a whole other field of expertise, one that I'm very interested in, but I do not hold the expertise as yet The other question I would ask is, are you turned on by life?
I want you to look at the areas in your life where you feel bored. I want you to look out for boredom when you are going about your life. Because boredom is not creative, rich, deep, libido fueled energy. You could almost argue that like boredom is maybe one of the opposites of that. It's stagnation. It, it's not conducive to creation.
So what areas of your life make you bored? And where can you change that? Where can you bring some aliveness [00:07:00] or joy or excitement or new, fresh, creative energy to that? And a lot of people tell me, "Well, I'm not creative." And I'll say, "Do you cook? Do you move? Do you think? Do you imagine? Do you do some sewing.
Do you do some knitting? Do you do any reading or writing? I bet, I bet that there is one area in your life where you are absolutely creative, but it just doesn't fit the mold of what we would traditionally put under creativity Just because you don't maybe see yourself as an artist does not mean that you are not creative.
There is creative energy in a lot of things in life. So I want you to think about your home life, your work life, your relationships, how you look after yourself, your daily routines, and find the areas where you get to create something. Think about the [00:08:00] times where you may be da- you're may be d- daydreaming, you've got ideas.
That's all creation energy. Lean into that. Lean into that. The other thing I want you to be on the lookout for in your life are the other, I would say other emotional states or feelings that absolutely cock block your creative energy and are not conducive to libido, life force energy. Things like desperation, anger, resentment, jealousy, frustration, rage, sadness, hopelessness, helplessness, feeling dull, lackluster, feeling stagnant.
None of those are conducive to creative energy. They are not conducive to creating life.
These feelings and emotions are not to be avoided. That is not the goal here. These things aren't great for [00:09:00] your creative energy. These things aren't great for your vitality and life force energy, so just shut them down, turn them off, ignore them. No. If you are feeling any of these things ever or regularly, they are signposts, trailheads, signals about a deeper pattern or a thought pattern or a habit that you have going on that is not serving you.
And these feelings, as negative as we might see them, are really just neutral signals. It's natural to feel emotions, right?
Where the outcome is determined is how we choose to respond to those emotions. And these emotions, they wanna be transmuted. They don't wanna keep you stuck. They're not trying to harm you. They're not trying to limit you. They are still energy, and anything that is [00:10:00] energy you can transform and transmute into something that would help you
So sense where you feel these emotions in your life, and then bring it back to the body and sense where you feel these emotions in your body Maybe they're associated with a feeling you have, a ph- a physical sensation that you have. Maybe they're associated with a color, a sound, a movement. Maybe you need to scream into a pillow.
Maybe you need to do the messiest painting or drawing or something. Maybe you need to put on some boots or go barefoot and jump in a puddle of mud. Maybe you need to have a cry in the shower. Maybe you need to journal about that thing that happened 10 years ago that you still find yourself thinking about, and the energy is kind of just infiltrating your current life and you're not, you're not about that.
It's not serving you. Transmute these things. Don't suppress them. Don't block them down. Don't avoid them. Let them [00:11:00] fully come through you, fully feel them, and allow them to be released. Let's see it as compost, right? Dead leaves and fallen branches and food scraps, you know, we see it as things that we don't need, right?
But when we get all that stuff together and we bury it a bit and, you know, we give it, you know, it has some water, has some sun, it turns into this beautiful thing that can fertilize fruit trees in our gardens where we're growing herbs and vegetables. It's literally a key part of sustaining life. So even if they're negative emotions, don't think that it's all bad.
Don't think that they can't be transformed into something that can actually help your life in a positive sense. Alchemize these feelings. Turn them into something that's like compost. Let it fertilize the soil of your soul. [00:12:00] Let it revive your creative energy. Maybe there's an emotion that is like asking for you to output something, that is asking you to get creative with something.
Maybe a creative pursuit is the way that that emotion wants to come out of you.
Let the shit, let the bad feelings revive your creative energy. Think about the energy of creation and think about what that energy requires and what it might be asking of you. Think about the feelings associated with that. Excitement, attraction, surrender, openness, aliveness, energy, breath, movement, connection, flow, presence, receptivity, like I said before.
And just have a little inner reflection now of how much you're feeling these things on a day-to-day basis or g- generally in your life. Think of the last month or so. [00:13:00] Have you felt excitement? Have you felt attraction? Have you felt a sense of surrender? How alive have you felt? How much energy have you had?
How much focus and mindfulness have you put on your breath? How have you been moving your body? How connected have you felt to yourself and to others and to your purpose and to the bigness of it all? Have you had moments of feeling totally in flow? And how present have you been with your life, yourself, the people you love, the tasks at hand?
And how receptive have you been? Have you been open to receiving love and support and resources from others?
These I see as kind of ingredients that are needed to make a baby, to create life. [00:14:00] These are energetic forces that will support you in your fertility journey. This is not the kind of stuff that will be spoken about in an appointment with a fertility specialist
But these, these feelings, how you feel about your life, your libido, how turned on you are or aren't, these are not separate to fertility These feelings, these concepts add to the depth of the well within you. The well within you that is your fertility, that is your fertile soil It's the foundation of your fertility.
It's the environment that a fertilized egg is going to be implanting itself into.
With how many women I've worked with and with my own journey of mental health and emotional stuff and just, you know, having, having life struggles as we all do, I've just gotten to a point where I, I can no longer separate these concepts from health. [00:15:00] They are reflections of our lives and our health. And our lives and our health are not separate from fertility.
I hope I've given you some food for thought. I know it's a little bit edgy. I know it's maybe a little bit unconventional. if you've stuck with me this far, thank you. I really, really appreciate it, and I would love, love, love to know your thoughts. And I don't want you to feel down if you are maybe struggling with your fertility, your creativity, your zest for life.
There are things that can be done to support you, Thanks for tuning into this one, and I will see you in the next episode of The Fertility Files, where we are going to talk about some of the habits that might not be helping our fertility goals. Lots to explore there. So take care for now, and I will catch you in the next installment.
file #4: testing, testing!
In this episode I'm tackling one of the most confusing parts of the trying-to-conceive journey: testing. I start with the thing I see causing the most unnecessary stress in fertility forums and with my own clients — ovulation predictor kits and LH testing — and break down exactly why they're not the reliable tool they're marketed as, and how to use them more efficiently if you're going to use them at all. I then move through the full landscape of preconception blood testing, hormone testing (including why dried urine testing gives a far richer picture than a standard blood draw), genetic testing, vaginal microbiome testing, and semen analysis, including the nuances and caveats that most people are never told about. The takeaway: one test result is never the whole story, body literacy has to come first, and there's a lot more to investigate than what you're typically offered.
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Opening — ovulation testing, not mic testing
01:00 Why LH / ovulation predictor kits cause more confusion than clarity
05:30 How to use LH tests more intelligently — let cervical mucus guide you
11:00 Blood testing: hormone panels, timing, and what your results actually mean
13:00 Why dried urine testing (EndoMAP) gives so much more than a standard blood draw
19:00 Full preconception blood check — nutrients, thyroid, genetics, and AMH
24:00 Vaginal microbiome and semen analysis — the overlooked pieces
30:30 Final takeaways and booking a free Fertility Clarity Call
[00:00:00] Testing, testing, one, two, three. Testing, testing, one, two, three. Oh, thought I was doing a mic test? No, no, no, no, no. Testing is the topic of today's installment of The Fertility Files. Thank you for returning for more of the files. When I first was drafting the outline for what I wanted to cover in The Fertility Files, I thought of testing in terms of getting blood tests done, getting health checks done, um, as part of your preconception care journey. Then when I went to record today, I was like, "Hang on. The thing that I really want to talk about, the thing that I keep seeing in fertility forums and trying to conceive forums, the thing that my friends keep asking me about is ovulation testing," and that's what I want to talk about first.
I will cover blood tests and stuff, but I want to talk about this first. So ovulation testing.
Something that comes up is, [00:01:00] "How do I know when I ovulate? My cycles are usually X amount, X days to X days long. Uh, my app tells me I ovulate on this day. When do you, when do you guys do your LH tests?" And I'm like, "Oh my God," that, ugh, ooh, ooh. Now, if you've listened to the cervical mucus episode, maybe you'll know some of my feelings about this already.
But LH tests, and if you don't know, these are also ovulation predictor kits that you can get from the chemist. These will be advertised and marketed as ovulation tests. Um, they're urine tests that measure a certain hormone in your body that you're outputting through your urine. And the problem, they can be quite tedious.
And in all the work I've done with women with getting them to start tracking their cycles, tracking their biomarkers, getting to understand their fertile window, and understanding their, their [00:02:00] bodies and their, their rhythm, the LH testing seems to be the layer that they are first to implement because they knew about it before working with me, because it's the thing that's kind of in the mainstream, and it's also the thing that leaves them most confused.
So my first beef is I have more beef, beef with the digital ones, but overall they can be confusing because essentially you can get a positive result, and if you read the instructions of a lot of these products, they'll say, "Yeah, when you get this positive result, that indicates that ovulation will happen, you know, within the next 12 to 24 hours."
The hormone that it's testing is called LH, luteinizing hormone, so we shorten it to LH. This hormone needs to be elevated above a certain point in order to trigger ovulation. But [00:03:00] that hormone can be raised beyond the threshold that these tests will pick up as a positive for other reasons.
The hormone can get high enough to trigger a positive test result without ovulation being guaranteed within 12 to 24 hours. Especially in the women I work with who have PCOS, PMOS, any degree of irregular cycles, LH can be more elevated as a general baseline. So generally, we'll see it on kind of like pulse on a daily basis, but then the closer you get to ovulation, it will have a really huge surge, and that's what these tests are designed to pick up on.
But they're not perfect, and your LH levels as a baseline may be high enough that you get all these positives, and you're like, "Okay, cool. I'm, I'm gonna ovulate. I'm gonna ovulate. I'm gonna ovulate." And then you're getting [00:04:00] all these positives at all different times in your cycle, and you're like, "Am I gonna ovulate?
Have I ovulated? What is going on?"
And there's specifically a handful of women that I'm working with at the moment who are tracking and charting their cycles, uh, because they are actively trying to conceive. They are ready to go. And there have been so many times where I've had to reassure them or s- kind of talk them down off a ledge in regards to their results that they're getting on these ovulation predictor kits, because it's driving them crazy, because they are not clear to interpret, um, especially with the history of irregular cycles, if you have that.
Um, but even, even on a great day, they can be really challenging to interpret. It is not clear when the best time to start testing is, so you can end up spending a lot of money ch- testing all cycle long. That is not the way to go about it.
You know how with pregnancy tests, [00:05:00] any line that you see next to the control line can indicate a positive result? With the, just the basic test strips for LH tests, it's kind of different in that you will always get a line appearing next to the control line, but what we're looking for is something that is specifically darker than the control line.
That indicates an LH surge that could predict ovulation, that could suggest that ovulation is impending, right? So that's already confusing, because, they are in the instructions, but it's not obvious to a lot of people who are using these tests. And so they're getting these kind of faint lines or lines that are similar to the control line or a bit lighter, and they're counting it as a positive.
Leaves them more confused when they don't ovulate or their cycle keeps going and going, and they're like, "Oh, I thought I ovulated. What happened?" The digital ones I kind of interpret as worse because [00:06:00] you don't get to see a line. You don't get to judge a line for yourself, and you don't get to compare it to a control line.
You just get a little screen, and you will get, I think, a solid smiley face or a flashing smiley face. And I have heard, I, I've never used those ones myself. I have used the non-digital ones. I have heard differing things from different clients about the exact same tests. I've been told that the flashing smiley means peak or that the solid smiley means peak.
And so there's confusion even, uh, among the different clients using the same tests, there is confusion. And I find the smiley faces harder to interpret. And again, I'm currently working with people who will be testing at all different times in their cycle, and they will be getting positives and negatives everywhere, totally outside of their fertile window.
So if this is what you are using as your first line tool for understanding when you [00:07:00] ovulate, I feel you are gonna be left in more confusion than in clarity. And when you are trying to conceive, when pregnancy is your goal, that is the last thing that you want, more confusion, less clarity, not ideal. If you really wanna make the most out of these tests, if you are happy to keep using them, maybe you already have some, there is a way to use them that is more efficient.
Now, to understand that, I'm gonna invite you to listen to the cervical mucus episode again because your cervical mucus and how that changes throughout your cycle, and specifically how that changes before ovulation, is going to be the indicator for you when to start testing your LH levels, when to start using these ovulation tests, right?
When you notice a change to your cervical mucus from your basic infertile pattern, using some techie words here again, [00:08:00] listen to, go back and listen to the cervical mucus episode. I went a bit more deep into cervical mucus. Does that make sense? No, I went into more depth about cervical mucus, um, inside my Cycle Power Bundle.
It's $27 for a bunch of resources, but lots there on fertility and cervical mucus if you would like to learn more. But essentially, you get your period, and then you have what we call your basic infertile pattern of mucus, fluid, discharge. As soon as that changes, as soon as you get any more mucus or any kind of more fertile mucus from that basic infertile pattern, that is when I would recommend you start testing LH.
Generally not first thing in the morning, like, not with your first urine of the day. But, you know, late morning, afternoon, and then again at nighttime, um, just because of how, h- the, the frequency that this hormone pulses at from the brain. Um, it, it can be good to test twice a day, but not too [00:09:00] close together.
Yeah, eight to 12 hours apart. And your cervical mucus is gonna guide that. So you're not just gonna be taking random stabs in the dark throughout your cycle going, "Oh, should I start testing now? Yeah, it's day 10, maybe I'll start testing."
You know, if you have cycles that are 32 days or longer or irregular, day 10 might be way too early, and you end up going through way, way too many tests than you need to. Um, and then that cuts into your preconception budget, which I don't want you doing. So cervical mucus, let that be your guide for when to start testing.
When you notice more fluid, more discharge. Even if you don't know any of the parameters about cervical fluid tracking, if you haven't done any of my trainings, or if we don't work together, or if you're just like, "Cervical fluid, what are you talking about?" Start testing the LH when you notice more discharge in your underwear, more discharge when you wipe, um, with toilet paper after going to the toilet, or when you just feel more wet down there.
Yes, [00:10:00] that is enough of an indicator. So that's LH testing. If you really, really wanna do it, that's how I would go about it, and I wouldn't invest too much of your money, energy, emotionality into the results of these tests, okay? They are, they're a bit tricky to navigate. Even, you know, I've been charting my cycles for 13 years, and probably twice a year I like to buy a pack of LH tests just to correlate it with, with what else I'm tracking in my cycle, my basal body temperatures and my cervical fluid, just to see what I get, and it's, it's not always clear.
It's not always clear.
And then moving on to the blood test. And, you know, this is a really big area, so I really hope to give you a great lay of the land, but not anything that's gonna go, just fly over your head or, you know, go way beyond into, like, weird specifics that we don't need to go into. Blood testing and [00:11:00] health checks in general are always gonna be on a case-by-case basis.
They should always be tailored to you, unique to your circumstances. We should be looking at specific tests based on any symptoms or specific history that you have. But if I'm being general, LH is one of the tests that you're gonna wanna test, so we are gonna want a basic hormone panel. LH, FSH. These are the hormones that come from your brain that, uh, have a huge influence on your ovaries and your menstrual cycle and the rest of your hormones, right?
There's a lot of different factors, but they give your ovaries one input of information that kind of dictates what your ovaries are gonna do. Um, These are best tested through the blood, and they are best tested on day two and three of your cycle, and again, uh, seven days after ovulation on the same cycle.
That's the most... This, I'm giving you the gold standard. I'm not tailoring this to you. This is just, if we're [00:12:00] being the most ideal, this is what we'll do. As for the rest of the hormones, your doctor, if you're getting a basic hormone panel, your doctor will probably put, um, estradiol, progesterone, um, maybe free testosterone as well, um, maybe DHEA.
Just some other, um, sex hormones and related hormones that can paint, uh, a bigger picture. Sometimes blood testing is not the best method of looking at these hormones. This is why my gold standard, my personal gold standard, is dried urine testing. Specifically in Australia, I use a test called the Endomap, um, endo being short for endocrine, so, like, your hormonal system in your body.
This Endomap is done over four urine samples taken across a day. You dry those samples. You send them back. You get a [00:13:00] really comprehensive panel of not just, like, your hormone lev- levels, not just, like, what your estrogen's doing, but all the metabolites of estrogen because that what, that's what goes out through your kidneys and in your urine, right?
So there is a lot we can test through urine, and it is very reliable and valid as far as your hormones go, and they can give a lot more information than just getting a blood test done So you get a blood test, and a blood test is very static. A blood test is very specific of, like, what were you doing on that exact day, at that exact time that the blood was taken?
Also, how was the blood taken? Was there any trauma to the surrounding tissue? Um, were you fasted? How fasted were you? Were you beyond 12 hours fasted? Um, did you exercise that day? Did you have sex that day? There are a l- so many [00:14:00] variables, um, that aren't always accounted for by the doctors or by the, um, pathologists, by the pathology lab, um, that can sort of, again, one, like, kind of like the LH testing, leave you in the dark as to what your results are actually saying.
So you just get these single nu- numbers that are snapshots in time, whereas with the Endomap, with the dried urine testing, you get your hormone results all throughout a day, and you get the metabolites of your hormones. So you can see how one hormone is being metabolized, and we know what pathway is used in the body for that metabolism to take place.
We know what organ that happens in. We know what tissues that happens in. It gives us so inf- so much information when we can see how a hormone, like your estrogen, is being metabolized down several pathways. There's, like, three major kinds of estrogen, and then they have all sorts of ... They have all these metabolites, right?
And each of those metabolites can give us [00:15:00] very specific insight into what's happening in your body. Same thing with progesterone. Progesterone is the hormone we want to be looking out for specifically after you ovulate, but we now know that you need sufficient, progesterone. You need, like, a little surge, um, before ovulation.
This is quite new information. We used to say that you only produce progesterone after ovulation, but there is a little peak before ovulation, and then you get the most progesterone after ovulation, right? Doing blood tests, you just get progesterone and a number, and they say, "Take it on day 21."
Because they're aiming for seven days after ovulation when progesterone should be at its peak, because that's what we want to see. Well, if you don't have a regular 28-day cycle, and even if you do, you might not be ovulating on day 14. That means seven days after ovulation would be day 21, which is when they're recommending you to get your blood tests.
So this is why body literacy, tracking your [00:16:00] own cycle is so important. Even if you are gonna go down the mainstream route of just getting your normal blood tests done, you want to know exactly what cycle day you were on and exactly where you were in relation to ovulation when you get those results.
Because you could get a hormone panel on any day of your cycle. If you don't know when you ovulated that cycle, there's not a lot that we can clearly interpret from any of those results, which is really, really unfortunate. Because for each phase of the cycle, each time in your cycle, before ovulation, after ovulation, there's different reference ranges for those hormones, right?
So actually, no matter which way you're going to go about it, because even with the dried urine Endomap testing, we do want to time that seven days after ovulation. But I got to say, even on their instructions, they're like, "If you're got irregular cycles, count your last cycle length and then count back this many days, and then do the test on that day."
And [00:17:00] even that, I don't recommend. Th- the, the body literacy, the tracking your own body really has to come first. And even with clients who haven't been super deep into the cycle tracking, I've just educated them a little bit about cervical mucus. Um, maybe they're keen to do the temperature charting as well, and we can see, yep, you probably ovulated around here.
Do the test seven days after that. And we get the clearest results, and then their period comes another week after they've done the test. And I'm like, "Yep, you ovulated two weeks ago. We got that timing perfect." And it's really satisfying. Anyway, that's a rambly rabbit hole that maybe you don't need to know about, and I said I wasn't going to go over your head, and here I am going over your head with stuff.
So I just want you to know that to not place heaps and heaps and heaps of weight on your hormone results if it's just a blood draw taken at one time in your cycle, especially if you don't know when you ovulated that cycle. If you'd like to learn more about Endomap testing that I'm talking about, this [00:18:00]really rich, comprehensive picture we get of all your hormones, your cortisol pattern throughout the day, your melatonin pattern throughout the day, all your sex hormones, all your testosterones and androgens, um, and some, e- even some extra markers that sort of paint a richer picture about, um, how your hormones are working in your body, how inflammation is working in your body, uh, let me know.
Just send me an email, send me a message on Instagram saying, "Hey, what was that hormone testing you were talking about?" I will tell you all about it. So that's hormones aside. And then we want to make sure that you're getting a really rich annual blood check. But like with everything, right?
We want the full blood exam looking at your red blood cells, your white blood cells. So they're your immune cells. We wanna see liver function tests. We wanna see a full cholesterol panel. We want to see urea and electrolytes, so what's moving through your kidneys. We want to see, thyroid function.
Ideally not just TSH. Ideally, we want to see what T3 is doing, T4 is doing, your [00:19:00] actual thyroid hormones. We want to see nutritional panels are really, really important. Full iron studies, B12, active B12, folate.
Vitamin D. Vitamin D is a big one. Um, I'm gonna be more interested in your sun exposure than I am gonna be interested in your vitamin D result. As in, I'm not just gonna prescribe vitamin D if your vitamin D is low. Uh, sunlight plays such an important role in so many processes, and is really the best, the best way that we get our vitamin D up.
And then of course, and again, if you're going through the mainstream route, they're gonna do generally an STI check. They're gonna look for the hepatitises. They might do your blood type to see if you've got, um, positive or negative, uh, Rhesus factor. Rhesus factor?
The thing that kind of determines if your blood type is like a positive or a negative. And if your partner has a different blood type, and then your baby could have a blood [00:20:00] type that you don't have, and then they just need to be aware of that.
And sometimes they check viral, uh, presence of viruses as well, just to sort of see if you have been immunized in the past, like how that's sitting now, but also just to see if you have had viruses in the past because some, some viruses can have an impact on your fertility and reproductive system, and could play a role in your conception journey
Beyond this, so that's kind of like the mainstream. If I'm taking it a step further, now they could also- you could also get your AMH tested. This is anti-Müllerian hormone, and this is generally, what they call, like, your egg reserve.
I'm also gonna encourage you to really not place too much weight on this, because there is so much nuance with AMH. AMH is highly variable. You can get very different results in a very short period of time. We absolutely can [00:21:00] get some information from it, but it is not the be all and end all if it's low or if it's too high.
It's, it's another layer of information, but I feel like more weight gets placed on this than I think should be placed on. And then going beyond that, and now especially if you do have a history of recurrent miscarriage or early miscarriage, some genetic testing can be really important to get done.
There's a few different ones we can look at. The one I'm gonna bring to your attention is, uh, called, it's long acronym, MTHFR.
Some of the population, in fact, a large amount of the population does have a, mutation of this gene. Essentially, this gene impacts how your DNA is taken care of, and looked after, and protected in your body.
This gene can play a huge role in really important detoxification processes in your body that [00:22:00] require a lot of nutrients, that ends up impacting, like, every system of your body. I do find that a lot of early or recurrent miscarriages can have an association with this gene mutation. And having this gene mutation kind of changes your need for specific nutrients generally.
And there are some really clear prescriptions based on your symptoms, based on your gene test results, and based on blood test results. We can have some really clear indications of you need this nutrient in this amount, in this specific form. And we've got some really great, um, nutritional tools that we can use that can really support your body.
I know that's a bit, like, heavy or confusing, but I just want you to know that that exists. And I want you to know that that has a huge role, that MTHFR enzyme plays a huge role in how your body metabolizes [00:23:00] folate or folic acid. Folic acid is a s- synthetic form. Our body can have a lot of issues processing the synthetic form.
But it's also the form that is in most prenatals that you get off the shelf. Things can get complicated. I don't want you to be fearful about anything. But I just want you to know that there's some layers there. This trying to conceive shit is not as simple as anyone made it out to be when we were teenagers, hey?
Anyway, I will talk about prenatal supplements in a different episode. The other thing I want you to be aware of, so you've got your, your urine testing for hormones. You've got your blood testing for nutrients and hormones and all the markers in your body, looking at your blood cells and all that. And then you've got ge- genetic testing, which is usually, can be a blood test, can be a saliva test.
Then we've also got other factors that are really important to test when it comes to preconception, again, especially if you [00:24:00] have a complex history or if you have any history of chemical pregnancy, recurrent miscarriage, early miscarriage. Your vaginal microbiome. Let's, and let's pause there. Your vaginal microbiome.
There is a whole ecosystem on your vulva, in your vagina, in your cervix, in your uterus that creates the immune system of that part of your body. And your immune system in your uterus, in your vagina, is really pivotal to how sperm will be received, how they'll be accepted if they happen to find themselves in your reproductive tract, but also how a fertilized egg will be received by your body.
If you have any kind of vulvovaginal symptom, history of recurring thrush, [00:25:00] bacterial vaginosis, vaginitis, any STIs that have affected the tissues of your vulva, vagina, really, really, really important to be aware of because that can play a role in not getting pregnant as quickly as you'd like.
Um, again, early pregnancy loss. And it's not usually, it's not the first place that any doctor or fertility specialist that I've worked with will look. But it can be really, really useful to look there, and there is some very specialized comprehensive testing that we can get done, uh, that will assess our vaginal microbiome.
That tells us a lot about the ecosystem, if anything is lacking, if anything is in excess, and it can sp- it, it can explain a lot in terms of our conception journey if we've been having some troubles. Similarly, much more complexly, but similarly, [00:26:00] semen has its own microbiome. This is a very new area, and I'm not gonna go further than that.
I just want you to know that there is a whole ecosystem of bacteria and all sorts of tiny microscopic guys that can make or break the quality of semen. The testing is in its very, very early days. But something that does exist is semen testing. So I've spoken all about you and, like, what you can get checked in your female body, but what can your male partner get checked?
Well, they can have all the same hormones checked. They can have all the same blood tests that I described checked because that's gonna be influencing their sperm production and their hormonal health as well, and their overall health. And if you've listened to the first episode, you'll know how I see fertility as health.
So semen, semen analysis. And my God, there's, there's caveats here. There's caveats here because if the [00:27:00] semen is analyzed too long after ejaculation occurred, the reference ranges are gonna be totally off. The interpretation is gonna be totally skewed. It also depends on the pathology lab that is interpreting, that is analyzing the, uh, ejaculate sample.
There's good and there's bad. And you won't just want to go to any clinic to get this done. You'll want to go to a specialized andrology clinic to do the best quality interpretation of semen. You can get two really different samples in a short period of time, uh, of semen. There is so much... There's, there's so much nuance.
And so it's not just like looking at the semen is good enough. Oh yeah, he's got enough there. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. The number doesn't tell us about the quality of the DNA in that semen. Which, so I should be saying sperm cell. It's not determining the quality of DNA in those sperm [00:28:00] cells, right? And the DNA in the sperm cell is what is going to ter- determine the quality of your pregnancy, your maternal health throughout the pregnancy, as well as half the DNA of the baby, right?
And it's gonna determine your placenta, because it's the DNA instructions in the sperm cell that produce the placenta. This is really new up-and-coming information. It's really exciting. It's also really broad, and so there's lots to cover. So do consider semen testing, but just know that there's nuance, and really, really consider going to a fertility, holistic health specialist, going to a fertility-focused naturopath or Chinese medicine practitioner or nutritionist.
Just someone who has experience looking at these semen results through a nuanced holistic health lens. No diagnosis should be made from [00:29:00] one set of blood test results, one set of hormone results, one set of semen results. There always has to be a second assessment done on a second set of results, okay? So no diagnostics from one test.
I want you to keep that in mind if any doctor is trying to tell you something is this way because of one single test result, unless it's a genetic test, right? Or unless it's, like, a very, a clear positive or negative result, like, you know, if they're doing the Hep B check or doing the viral checks.
So remember, it does take two to tango. If you're getting preconception testing done, your partner should be getting preconception testing one, it done as well. It really does take two to tango. Semen analysis and microbiome assessments are things to consider, especially if you've been trying for maybe th- three to six months and there hasn't been success, or there's been early pregnancy loss, or one or both of you has a complicated health history where there might be some factors that could be acting [00:30:00] as obstacles that might need a little bit more support to get cleared to make it easier for you to conceive successfully.
Remember that there's blood, but blood does not tell the whole picture. Remember that there are dried hormone testing for your hormones that can tell us a lot more about what your whole endocrine system is doing, which can be so clarifying, especially if you've been trying for six months or longer, and maybe you've had cycle issues in the past.
Maybe you've been on the pill for a long time before trying. Maybe you've got PMOS or PCOS. Maybe you've got endometriosis. It will be so clarifying, and sort of going through the blood test route and being like, "Oh, yeah, your bloods look normal enough," or maybe this thing is out. It can take longer than needs to.
It can be more confusing than needs to. It's a really high-quality investment. Feel free to ask me if you have more questions about that. And genetic testing, remember that there's a layer of genetic testing, and again, some practitioners [00:31:00] might recommend this straight off the bat. Again, I would want to look at your unique health history before I'm saying, "Yes, please invest in this genetic testing," or try, let's give ourselves a timeline of three months, and if there's no luck, maybe we do the genetic testing then.
And even then, that timeline, that is just a broad, generalized timeline. It will be so specific to your situation, your goals, your personal timeline, and also your personal health history. So have I made things more confusing? Testing can be great, but just remember it's not the be-all and end-all, and remember that there will always be nuance.
I think the thing I want you to take home from this the most is to not place too much weight on any single test, and especially, especially those very well-marketed mainstream ovulation predictor kits or LH tests. Don't place too much weight on them. I would much rather you [00:32:00] invest time in learning about your body, in taking your basal body temperatures every day, in tracking your cervical fluid, rather than investing too much money in these tests that can be more confusing than not.
So get that baseline of reading your body first before adding in these more complex and more nuanced layers of test results. That can take a whole other set of skills to interpret with confidence. If you have any questions about anything I have brought up in this episode, you can email me any questions that you have.
And if you are trying to conceive or you are thinking about trying to conceive, and you would rather have more information sooner rather than later, if you would rather understand what's happening in your body, what your hormones are doing sooner rather than later, book in for a free fertility clarity call, okay?
We'll go through your history. We'll go through what your body's saying to us, what [00:33:00] issues, what obstacles that may be on the road in your fertility journey, and ways that we can support your body to get through those obstacles. Things that your body might be asking for that would obliterate those obstacles.
And just, just to get started on understanding your body sooner, right? That, that can be the thing that makes the biggest difference in your conception journey.
So to learn more, please book in for your free fertility clarity call. I would love to meet you, and I can't wait to help you make babies. Until the next installment of The Fertility Files, take care, and I'll catch you next time.
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